Kastingpearl, 49

Ok, a little about me.Im a 37yr old single mother of 4 amazingly talented beautiful creative and spirited little people.They are the beat of my heart, and come first in my world.Everything else is secondary.Now on to the everything else. Im extremely right brained and creative to the core. I am a singer/songwriter, I have a degree in Interior Design, I love to read and write, love and have tattoos, love to cook, and I love Jack Daniels.Im gritty, honest and loyal to a fault. I have a bit of a potty mouth when the kids arent around and I confess Im a bit of a diva. Being a diva isnt always bad. My mother always told me "you can be as pretty as you wanna be but if your heart is ugly, then youre just ugly".So when I say Im a diva it isnt because I am in love with myself its because Im proud. Im proud of myself. It took me a long time to realize that its really not just OK to like yourself, but essential to be successful at being HUMAN.Im looking to truly connect with someone. Not a father for my children, they already have one. I want a man who doesnt want to change me, nor am I interested in trying to chane him- not my department.Im a hopeless romantic and LOVE to go to bed so I can dream (and I have kick --- dreams.)I practice meditation as often as I can and love ALL things spiritual.I love nature and science and history.I do not have a pefect figure Ive had 4 children and am almost 40 yrs old.Im not a beauty queen but I have a keen sense of fashion and want a guy who does also.Im real and just want to be appreciated for it. I want to give that same appreciation back to someone who deserves it.Also there doesnt need to be a romantic or physical connection to be friends, I love people so if you resonate with anything that Ive said feel free to message me. Peace.